Dr. Jennifer J. Gans
MindfulTinnitusRelief.com
One of the most confusing and distressing aspects of tinnitus is that the sound often ‘feels louder’ at certain times, even when nothing has changed physically or emotionally. People frequently report that their tinnitus intensifies during periods of stress, anxiety, fatigue, or intense focus. Others notice the opposite: the sound seems louder when they are finally resting, lying in bed, or in a quiet room.
This leads to a natural but misleading question: Is my tinnitus actually getting worse?
The answer is, No. What is changing is not the sound itself, but the brain’s relationship to it.
We tend to think of loudness as a physical property—like turning up the volume on a radio. But in tinnitus, loudness is largely a perceptual experience, shaped by attention, emotion, and the nervous system.
Two people can have the same tinnitus signal and experience it very differently. One barely notices it. The other finds it overwhelming. The difference is not in the sound—it is in the brain.
When a person is stressed or anxious, the brain shifts into a state of hypervigilance. The amygdala (the brain’s threat detector) becomes more active, and the nervous system prepares for danger. In this state, the brain scans constantly for anything unusual or potentially threatening. Tinnitus fits perfectly into this system.
Once the brain labels the sound as important, it amplifies it—not by making the signal stronger, but by making it more salient. Attention locks onto it. Awareness narrows. The sound moves to the center of consciousness.
The experience is: It’s louder.
But what has really happened is: It has become more important to the brain.
Attention is one of the most powerful volume knobs in the brain. The more you listen for tinnitus, check it, monitor it, or compare it to how it felt yesterday, the more neural resources are devoted to it. The auditory cortex becomes sensitized. The signal becomes clearer, sharper, more detailed. Not because it changed—but because you changed how you’re listening.
This is why tinnitus often feels louder when someone is:
And whatever the brain pays attention to grows.
Many people are confused by the fact that tinnitus can feel loudest when they are calm, resting, or finally alone.
This usually reflects checking behavior and subconscious loops.
When external stimulation drops—no conversations, no traffic, no tasks—the brain has fewer inputs to process. Attention naturally turns inward. The mind scans the body and senses. And tinnitus becomes easy to detect.
This can create a subtle loop:
Over time, this loop can run automatically, even without conscious intent. The brain learns that certain contexts (bedtime, silence, rest) are times to check for tinnitus. The sound hasn’t changed. The habit has.
One of the most important insights in tinnitus care is this:
Perceived loudness is a state of the nervous system, not a property of the sound.
It fluctuates with:
This is why tinnitus can feel unbearable one week and barely noticeable the next—without any physical change at all. The brain cannot both monitor tinnitus and ignore it at the same time.
Habituation happens not by forcing the sound away, but by gradually withdrawing attention and emotional importance from it. Making tinnitus boring to the brain, When the brain stops treating tinnitus as a threat or a problem to solve, it removes it from the priority list. The sound becomes background again—not because it disappeared, but because it no longer matters.
The critical shift is this:
From: “Why is it louder?”
To: “Ok, I am noticing tinnitus. I am safe. In light of tinnitus feeling more bothersome, how can I help myself in this moment?”
When people learn to recognize that tinnitus loudness reflects brain state rather than tinnitus worsening or a danger, fear softens. Checking behavior decreases. The system calms.
And as the system calms, the sound fades—not in volume, but in relevance.